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WOODHULL SEXUAL FREEDOM SUMMIT ’16
As many of you know, I’m on the board of Dircetors for the Woodhull Freedom Alliance and will be attending the 7th annual Sexual Freedom Summit the first week of August. It’s an amazing event with a wide range of workshops all day and different, interesting parties each night. There are the Vicky Awards, given to three people each year who have made important contributions to the cause of sexual freedom. Sundays there usually is an author’s round table, where smart people sit and talk about interesting, timely subjects.
I’ll be there with bells on. I usually room w/Reid Mihalko , so you know the parties there will be epic. As well, I’ll be selling off Safe Sex Kisses, spanks and gropes, as part of the fund raiser evening. Hope to see you there!
This past Thursday, 2/18, about 75 adult performers, agents, lawyers, as well as public health professionals, amassed at a state government building in Oakland, CA., in a last ditch attempt to persuade the committee tasked with voting on a draconian measure designed to protect adult performers from exposure to potentially-infectious bodily fluids. The measure was created by the industry’s arch-nemisis, Michael Weinstein, of the Aids Healthcare Foundation (AHF), one of the biggest, if not the biggest, NGO HIV/AIDS organizations in the world.
I won’t bore you with the whole, sordid, history of the fight between my industry of legal adult entertainment and AHF. Some of you know about Measure B, the “condoms in porn” law that was passed a couple of years ago. Yup, AHF was behind that, too.
I was astounded at the number of people who gave up a day of their lives to sit in an auditorium, lining up politely to wait their turn to speak for two minutes to the empaneled committee. Four+ hours of testimony, mostly from our side. AHF fielded a few speakers urging the panel to vote “yes” on the rules as written. The rest of us urged the panel to vote “no” on those same proposals. They were eloquent, passionate, urgent and very personal. Some cried, some were angry, but all were heartfelt.
I was one of the speakers and my observation was that it was a miracle that so may young people cared so much about their own health that they adhere, willingly, to the stringent testing protocols. What used to be a thirty-day test has been cut down to two weeks. So, a “fresh test” means one that is less than fourteen days old.
When it came down to the actual vote, at 3 in the afternoon (testimony began at 11am), we were certain we’d lose. We’re so used to being marginalized that we didn’t think we’d actually affect their thinking much. But we did! They voted 3-2 to send it back, effectively killing it for another year. The decibel level of the whoop that went up was deafening. It was great to see.
A large part of our success is that the Free Speech Coalition (FSC) has a new Executive Director who is young, hot, motivated, experienced in activism and a sex player (though not performer) in his own right. The previous Director was a lovely lady but she did not inspire confidence in the performing population.
Also getting a lot of the credit is APAC (Adult Performer Advocacy Committee), a by- and for-performer group that’s about two years old, now. Many attempts over time have been made to organize performers to work toward their own good but, until recently, porn wasn’t a career one thought of being life-long, so sticking around to organize wasn’t on people’s minds. That’s clearly changing, as so many of the people testifying said their careers were five, ten, fifteen or twenty years old. Pretty great.
The measure needed four votes to go forward, so all we needed to convince were two people, and we did!
It gives me hope, though AHF will not stop its attacks on our business, nor stop spreading lies and using its huge war chest to force its ideas of propriety onto others.
You can help by donating to FSC. All monies are tax-deductible.
Playtime with Tall Girl
After such a showing it was good to know that Tall Girl was coming over for a playdate on the 19th. TG is 5’10” and very strong. She loves a good thumping, so I get to use my heaviest implements on her and we both get to use our fists to hit her on her chest above her perky boobs, her stomach and her ass and thighs. She gets a blissful look on her face when she’s hit with thump things. She’ll endure stingy things because she knows Ernest loves it (plus the fact that the reward for enduring it is more fucking).
Once the pleasantries are over we strip her down and put on her collar and cuffs. Since she’s so athletic our favorite outfit for her is a ribbed, tank-style white T strategically cut off juuuuust above her nipples. It’s very hard to be modest in such an “outfit.” Since she’s so tall, she remains barefoot and she had a lovely, fresh pedicure in a dark maroon well suited to her brunette good looks. She likes a lot of the same porn as we do and, sitting her down between us, one of her legs draped over one of the each of ours (conveniently stripping TG of any remaining modesty), she went through a pile of hard-core illustrations from the folder marked, “Faves.”
It was fun to see which images made her squeal, sigh, laugh, point or wiggle. Ernest or I had a hand on her pussy at all times, just revving the engine for later.
When it was time we clipped her hands behind her and walked her back to the playspace. We’ve rented out a bit of gear so the cage was missing, making the room seem bigger but we had what we needed: the bed, suspension bar, spanking horse and the bounce wall, with the fucking stool already placed in front of it.
As is our way with TG we got her splayed on the dungeon bed and clipped her hands to some loose chains so she had limited use of her arms. Then I gloved up, lubed up her pussy and handed her the control valve for the suction machine. Placing the big tube over just so on her vulva, I flipped on the motor and had TG occlude the valve. This brings her flesh into the tube. I then ask, “Up or down?” and, if a change is needed, I have her release the suction and replace the tube. Once in place it’s up to the woman to torture herself as hard/long as she wants. They’re always meaner to themselves then we’d be but it’s their parts, so they should know.
I lubed up the outside of TG’s thigh and Ernest used her as a masturbatory object while he enjoyed her efforts. It only took about ten minutes before I popped the tube off and Ernest got on. TG made lovely sounds and, oops! her pretty feet were exposed when they went in the air. Only one thing for it: caning! Ernest loves to see the emotion in the faces of the women he’s fucking while I hurt their feet. No matter how masochistic a woman may be, almost to a one caning hurts, period. It’s got to do with how close to the surface the bones are, plus all the nerves. No matter why, foot-caning has a long and honorable tradition in BDSM sex play.
So, I held one foot in my hand and asked Ernest if he was ready for me to hurt TG. When he said he was, I caned TG’s left foot five times, stopping only when there was a specific tone to the yelp she emitted. She complained that I was mean and I said it was only in the service of pleasing Ernest She accused me of lying and then I had her right foot in my hand. Five more, ending with a pitiful yelp from TG as I was mean-for-real, but not too much.
One of the highlights of play was when he warmed up her pussy with his fingers (we like to go back and forth between fingers, dick and toys as penetrating objects) while I gloved up and started warming up her butt. TG is not adverse to butt play but she doesn’t get a lot of it. So, a virgin butt once again. No worries. All butts need to be coaxed and seduced each time. Ernest lay on his side and used his right hand in her pussy. I ay on my stomach and used my left hand in her butt. It didn’t take long before I had her relaxed enough for me to slide two fingers in easily.
That was when Ernest and I started a dance between our fingers, easy to do through the thin membrane of TG’s perineum. We found it was greatly dirty to move our fingers in a “windshield-wiper” motion contrapuntally with each other, his two fingers, hooked downward, rocking back and forth between 4 o’clock and 7 o’clock while my two fingers, also hooked down, moved in equal rhythm from 7 o’clock to 4 o’clock. TG said it felt like she was being DP’d w/out any of the awkward bits. It felt so fun to do that! We did some more finger play before I slipped in the NJoyToys Pure Plug (small) into her butt.
I wiped her clean from any messy lube and she was good to go. The rest of the evening was devoted to fucking her doggy style, missionary, in the bar stool set to hip level pushed up against the bounce wall (it’s all the fun of fucking in a sling w/none of the hassle of setting up a sling). I, of course, had on my fave strap on and her fave dildo, sort of like a mini-gangbang. But something interesting happened after Ernest whipped TG, (strung up on the suspension bar on tiptoe) to tears: he got a hankering to fuck and hurt me, too, effectively changing the double-Dom/single-sub action to a solo-Dom/sister sub scene. TG wanted to see Ernest hurt me (you should have seen her jumping up and down with glee) and he, as usual, was down for it, too.
He got the cane and I sat down on the dungeon bed, knowing what was coming next. I help my tits up and he caned the tops, laying down about four or five stripes before hitting his final target: my nipple. That always makes me yelp in the frequency that says, “That’s it!” Meaning, just the right combination of true, don’t-like-it pain and sexy adrenaline rush (I know hurting willing partners turns him on). Just for good measure, he caned my ass, too. He had her put her tail in the air while I put my pussy in her face and he watched in the mirror the lovely line from me, to TG, to him. TG, being an almost-dedicated lesbian, is a really fine oral expert, to put it mildly. It felt amazing to feel Ernest’s energy come through her mouth onto my clit. Yummy!
Then he had us nose-to-tail over the sides of the spanking horse. That way, TG could get an up close view of him fucking me. He then took his dick from my pussy to her mouth, before fucking her with it so I could watch. Always like that. It’s being in porn while you’re watching live porn. TG also liked having her face below us, on the bed, to watch him fuck me doggy from that angle.’
Then it was time for the floor, for the finale. TG blew him while I used the NJoyToys Pure Want and my Magic Wand, surfing the pleasure so we came at the same time. Whew! What a blast! TG took off our boots and we asked her if she needed anything more. She did not and we asked again, just to be sure. But, no, she had had enough of what she needed that night.
I got up to make dinner and by 11 pm she was on her way. What a nice way to spend five hours!
Stay well till next time!