Thursday, may 12, 2016


I must travel to SF on family business. Should be a show next week.



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Thursday, March 31, 2016


My bad. Ernest and I are doing Leather Heat starting Friday and we’ve got to pack and get up early. Sorry for the last minute change.

Show on the 7th as usual.


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Easter Sunday, March 27, 2016


Quiet Easter

Ernest and I stayed in all weekend. We’re not religious in any way so observing Easter as a religious holiday isn’t our cup of tea. We don’t have young kids so there’s no need to paint eggs, and it’s always nice to spend a lazy Sunday at home. Jay Taylor is coming over to shoot some new footage for the site and for my Clips4Sale store. She’s always fun so I know we’ll have a great time no matter what’s on offer.

Young Thing

A while ago Young Thing came by for a playdate. She’s recently found a Special Someone and has been hanging with that person hot and heavy. I knew it would be a while before she was in the mood, much less have the bandwidth for, a solo date w/us. I know she likes what we do together but New Love usually wins out over anything else, no matter how tasty it may be.

So it was nice when she accepted my offer of a date. It’s been about six months, which is when the hot rush of new love cools just enough that one can look about at other things.

She arrived right on time, with smoky eye makeup and her cute laugh. I had set up the playspace ahead of time, as per usual, and we all chatted and fondled as she removed her clothes to reveal a super-cute bra and panty set. That had to go too, of course and she was soon naked, which is how we prefer her. YT’s got the most mesmerizing vulva and when it’s exposed it’s hard to look anywhere else, which is how she likes it. She’s been shaving since well before she made her way to Los Angeles.

We got her in her collar and cuffs, poured her a drink and retired to the couch to look at smut, pet and tease her and generally get in the mood. I wore my leather harness, Dehner boots and my collar. Since YT had a fresh pedi we kept her barefoot, the better to whip them later. We traded kisses and fondled her pretty bits for close to half an hour before making our way to the back.

In honor of her return after so long we plead the favorites, beginning with the vulva suction device. If you peruse the archives on the site you’ll see plenty of women w/their bits being sucked up into a clear plastic tube. It’s a very sensitizing situation and we always allow our guests to “torture” themselves to their content while we watch and admire their efforts. I prepared her parts by eating her out while Ernest kissed her, before putting on gloves and lubing her up. I gave her the valve and switched on the motor and got the tube properly placed w/only one re-position.

Goodness, but YT was hard on herself! She kept her thumb over the valve and her bits sucked up full strength for close to ten minutes, rising in the tube close to three inches. Ernest lay next to her, casually using her as a masturbatory object.

When we turned off the machine and removed the tube her bits were deep pink and very pretty. Ernest had to have a taste before fucking her first. (We’re all tested, in case you don’t know how we roll).

I had a new strap on to test and she liked it well enough but she was clearly more in the mood for meat dick than for me to sling silicone. Fair enough. I’m good w/a strap on but I’m no dude.

The highlight of the night was when we got the dick-on-a-stick and had her put it in her pussy deeply enough that she had to stand on tiptoe for it not to be annoying.. I lubed up her hands and Ernest stood before her to both steady her and to receive the benefit of her talented little hands on his dick while I flogged her back and butt.

Speaking from experience it’s lovely to have a dick in one’s hand while being whipped. All of the energy generated by that stimulation comes out of one’s hands and into the body of the person one is jerking. I was able to “give” Ernest a great hand job vicariously through YT’s expert jerking of his dick. Did I mention that it was fun! YT makes lovely noises and she really likes floggers.

It was my turn next to stand in front of YT while Ernest got his favorite whip, a Single Tail Flogger from Bunny Flogger (I love being hit with it, too. Feels delicious!) and started working on her butt and back. She buried her face in my neck and made sweet noises while she did very clever things to my pussy with her hands. I squeezed her pretty boobs and kissed her.

When her butt was good and red we took her back to the bed and fucked her some more. I like to cane the feet of women Ernest is fucking in missionary style, as they really get to suffer beautifully and they’re so helpless then. Just five per foot, as it really is ouch, but oh, such lovely yelps . . . . .  Sigh.

The fabulous finish had YT on her back in front of the bed, her feet lubed up giving Ernest a very talented foot job. I took the vibrator and buzzed while he was headed to the home stretch, which occurred after a blow job by YT, finished off by jerking onto her boobs. Ernest is polite that way and only finishes in a woman’s mouth if she expressly asks for it. That’s just one of the reasons why we have playmates that return more than once.

I had had my orgasm mere moments before, leaving only YT to finish. We got her comfortable on her back with a pillow, gave her the Magic Wand (with a condom on the end, natch) and glove up. She wanted fingers and she got them. After a few minutes of concentrated attention she had a lovely screaming O and we all collapsed into a cuddle until it was time for me to get up and start dinner.

Diner was relaxed, as you could imagine and Ernest walked YT to her car by midnight.

Ah, it is good to be us!

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Sunday, February 21, 2016


Show on Thursday the 25th, 7 pm Pacific time. See you !


As many of you know, I’m on the board of Dircetors for the Woodhull Freedom Alliance and will be attending the 7th annual Sexual Freedom Summit the first week of August. It’s an amazing event with a wide range of workshops all day and different, interesting parties each night. There are the Vicky Awards, given to three people each year who have made important contributions to the cause of sexual freedom. Sundays there usually is an author’s round table, where smart people sit and talk about interesting, timely subjects.

I’ll be there with bells on. I usually room w/Reid Mihalko , so you know the parties there will be epic. As well, I’ll be selling off Safe Sex Kisses, spanks and gropes, as part of the fund raiser evening. Hope to see you there!


This past Thursday, 2/18, about 75 adult performers, agents, lawyers, as well as public health professionals, amassed at a state government building in Oakland, CA., in a last ditch attempt to persuade the committee  tasked with voting on a draconian measure designed to protect adult performers from exposure to potentially-infectious bodily fluids. The measure was created by the industry’s arch-nemisis, Michael Weinstein, of the Aids Healthcare Foundation (AHF), one of the biggest, if not the biggest, NGO HIV/AIDS organizations in the world.

I won’t bore you with the whole, sordid, history of the fight between my industry of legal adult entertainment and AHF. Some of you know about Measure B, the “condoms in porn” law that was passed a couple of years ago. Yup, AHF was behind that, too.

I was astounded at the number of people who gave up a day of their lives to sit in an auditorium, lining up politely to wait their turn to speak for two minutes to the empaneled committee. Four+ hours of testimony, mostly from our side. AHF fielded a few speakers urging the panel to vote “yes” on the rules as written. The rest of us urged the panel to vote “no” on those same proposals. They were eloquent, passionate, urgent and very personal. Some cried, some were angry, but all were heartfelt.

I was one of the speakers and my observation was that it was a miracle that so may young people cared so much about their own health that they adhere, willingly, to the stringent testing protocols. What used to be a thirty-day test has been cut down to two weeks. So, a “fresh test” means one that is less than fourteen days old.

When it came down to the actual vote, at 3 in the afternoon (testimony began at 11am), we were certain we’d lose. We’re so used to being marginalized that we didn’t think we’d actually affect their thinking much. But we did! They voted 3-2 to send it back, effectively killing it for another year. The decibel level of the whoop that went up was deafening. It was great to see.

A large part of our success is that the Free Speech Coalition (FSC) has a new Executive Director who is young, hot, motivated, experienced in activism and a sex player (though not performer) in his own right.  The previous Director was a lovely lady but she did not inspire confidence in the performing population.

Also getting a lot of the credit is APAC (Adult Performer Advocacy Committee), a by- and for-performer group that’s about two years old, now. Many attempts over time have been made to organize performers to work toward their own good but, until recently, porn wasn’t a career one thought of being life-long, so sticking around to organize wasn’t on people’s minds. That’s clearly changing, as so many of the people testifying said their careers were five, ten, fifteen or twenty years old. Pretty great.

The measure needed four votes to go forward, so all we needed to convince were two people, and we did!

It gives me hope, though AHF will not stop its attacks on our business, nor stop spreading lies and using its huge war chest to force its ideas of propriety onto others.

You can help by donating to FSC. All monies are tax-deductible.

Playtime with Tall Girl

After such a showing it was good to know that Tall Girl was coming over for a playdate on the 19th. TG is 5’10” and very strong. She loves a good thumping, so I get to use my heaviest implements on her and we both get to use our fists to hit her on her chest above her perky boobs, her stomach and her ass and thighs. She gets a blissful look on her face when she’s hit with thump things. She’ll endure stingy things because she knows Ernest loves it (plus the fact that the reward for enduring it is more fucking).

Once the pleasantries are over we strip her down and put on her collar and cuffs. Since she’s so athletic our favorite outfit for her is a ribbed, tank-style white T strategically cut off juuuuust above her nipples. It’s very hard to be modest in such an “outfit.” Since she’s so tall, she remains barefoot and she had a lovely, fresh pedicure in a dark maroon well suited to her brunette good looks. She likes a lot of the same porn as we do and, sitting her down between us, one of her legs draped over one of the each of ours (conveniently stripping TG of any remaining modesty), she went through a pile of hard-core illustrations from the folder marked, “Faves.”

It was fun to see which images made her squeal, sigh, laugh, point or wiggle. Ernest or I had a hand on her pussy at all times, just revving the engine for later.

When it was time we clipped her hands behind her and walked her back to the playspace. We’ve rented out a bit of gear so the cage was missing, making the room seem bigger but we had what we needed: the bed, suspension bar, spanking horse and the bounce wall, with the fucking stool already placed in front of it.

As is our way with TG we got her splayed on the dungeon bed and clipped her hands to some loose chains so she had limited use of her arms. Then I gloved up, lubed up her pussy and handed her the control valve for the suction machine. Placing the big tube over just so on her vulva, I flipped on the motor and had TG occlude the valve. This brings her flesh into the tube. I then ask, “Up or down?” and, if a change is needed, I have her release the suction and replace the tube. Once in place it’s up to the woman to torture herself as hard/long as she wants. They’re always meaner to themselves then we’d be but it’s their parts, so they should know.

I lubed up the outside of TG’s thigh and Ernest used her as a masturbatory object while he enjoyed her efforts. It only took about ten minutes before I popped the tube off and Ernest got on. TG made lovely sounds and, oops! her pretty feet were exposed when they went in the air. Only one thing for it: caning! Ernest loves to see the emotion in the faces of the women he’s fucking while I hurt their feet. No matter how masochistic a woman may be, almost to a one caning hurts, period. It’s got to do with how close to the surface the bones are, plus all the nerves. No matter why, foot-caning has a long and honorable tradition in BDSM sex play.

So, I held one foot in my hand and asked Ernest if he was ready for me to hurt TG. When he said he was, I caned TG’s left foot five times, stopping only when there was a specific tone to the yelp she emitted. She complained that I was mean and I said it was only in the service of pleasing Ernest She accused me of lying and then I had her right foot in my hand. Five more, ending with a pitiful yelp from TG as I was mean-for-real, but not too much.

One of the highlights of play was when he warmed up her pussy with his fingers (we like to go back and forth between fingers, dick and toys as penetrating objects) while I gloved up and started warming up her butt. TG is not adverse to butt play but she doesn’t get a lot of it. So, a virgin butt once again. No worries. All butts need to be coaxed and seduced each time. Ernest lay on his side and used his right hand in her pussy. I ay on my stomach and used my left hand in her butt. It didn’t take long before I had her relaxed enough for me to slide two fingers in easily.

That was when Ernest and I started a dance between our fingers, easy to do through the thin membrane of TG’s perineum. We found it was greatly dirty to move our fingers in a “windshield-wiper” motion contrapuntally with each other, his two fingers, hooked downward, rocking back and forth between 4 o’clock and 7 o’clock while my two fingers, also hooked down, moved in equal rhythm from 7 o’clock to 4 o’clock. TG said it felt like she was being DP’d w/out any of the awkward bits. It felt so fun to do that! We did some more finger play before I slipped in the NJoyToys Pure Plug (small) into her butt.

I wiped her clean from any messy lube and she was good to go. The rest of the evening was devoted to fucking her doggy style, missionary, in the bar stool set to hip level pushed up against the bounce wall (it’s all the fun of fucking in a sling w/none of the hassle of setting up a sling). I, of course, had on my fave strap on and her fave dildo, sort of like a mini-gangbang. But something interesting happened after Ernest whipped TG, (strung up on the suspension bar on tiptoe) to tears: he got a hankering to fuck and hurt me, too, effectively changing the double-Dom/single-sub action to a solo-Dom/sister sub scene. TG wanted to see Ernest hurt me (you should have seen her jumping up and down with glee) and he, as usual, was down for it, too.

He got the cane and I sat down on the dungeon bed, knowing what was coming next. I help my tits up and he caned the tops, laying down about four or five stripes before hitting his final target: my nipple. That always makes me yelp in the frequency that says, “That’s it!” Meaning, just the right combination of true, don’t-like-it pain and sexy adrenaline rush (I know hurting willing partners turns him on). Just for good measure, he caned my ass, too. He had her put her tail in the air while I put my pussy in her face and he watched in the mirror the lovely line from me, to TG, to him. TG, being an almost-dedicated lesbian, is a really fine oral expert, to put it mildly. It felt amazing to feel Ernest’s energy come through her mouth onto my clit. Yummy!

Then he had us nose-to-tail over the sides of the spanking horse. That way, TG could get an up close view of him fucking me. He then took his dick from my pussy to her mouth, before fucking her with it so I could watch. Always like that. It’s being in porn while you’re watching live porn. TG also liked having her face below us, on the bed, to watch him fuck me doggy from that angle.’

Then it was time for the floor, for the finale. TG blew him while I used the NJoyToys Pure Want and my Magic Wand, surfing the pleasure  so we came at the same time. Whew! What a blast! TG took off our boots and we asked her if she needed anything more. She did not and we asked again, just to be sure. But, no, she had had enough of what she needed that night.

I got up to make dinner and by 11 pm she was on her way. What a nice way to spend five hours!

Stay well till next time!




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Friday, February 12, 2016


I’ll be in Oakland w/a group of adult performers, testifying at the Cal OSHA meeting regarding on-set safety regulations. I won’t go into it now but you can follow along on the Free Speech Coalition website, the whole, sorry saga of the fight between Michael Weinstein of the Aids Healthcare Foundation )AHF), the largest HIV/AIDS NGO in the country and one of the largest in the world. For a bit of background:



I just returned from Columbus, OH, and my second time presenting for the Adventures in Sexuality folk. It’s a great group of kinky people of all stripes. It’s a short event: Friday evening pretty much straight through till Sunday 3am, when the dungeons close. In between there are workshops all day Saturday, at least five different ones per time period, with one slot before lunch and two after. My workshops were on Pain as Erotic Communication and Use Your Words!, about dirty talk. Well-attended. I don’t know what anyone learned but we all had a blast. I especially enjoyed the Pain class, as it gave me ample opportunity  to whap on people and even have a couple whap on me. Super fun.

My pal, Lizzo, attended and we had some fun time in the room alone, when we had hand sex and then I helped her get off by using my fingers in her pussy while she rode her vibe and watched smut on her phone. Always like being helpful, you know! I whipped people, I caned them, I spanked them, I flirted like a debutante with all sorts of sexy people. I had a few heart-to-hearts with some others, as one does at such events.

Lizzo, another woman and me got to trample a guy while barefoot. It was so easy. I saw a fellow wearing a kilt. This one was denim, though properly pleated as a kilt. I have a mild fetish for Celts in kilts and he was a blondie. I asked him if he was regimental and he, properly, coyly replied: “Do you want to check?” Do I ever! I put on a latex glove and slowly slid my hand up his thigh till I touched his junk. Ahhhhh, lovely! One question led  to another and soon the three women and Blondie were in the dungeon, under a frame we could use to keep our balance.

He undressed down to his boots and lay down on his back and we took turns standing on his abdomen, pressing down on his chest, putting our bare feet on his face, standing on his hands. The longer we stayed on his stomach, the bigger his smile got. He even got hard a few times at what we were saying, and that we were letting him peek at our pussies. All in all, a very fun twenty minutes. He didn’t come and soon we went our separate ways.

It was that kind of weekend. Handjobs for dudes, deep punching/kicking of the woman who lovedlovedlovved such things. Really, if you’re w/in a three hour drive of the Columbus area, do drop in. Soon there will be C.O.P.E: Central Ohio Perversion Excursion, a similar event, also held in Columbus. Do check it out!


I did a super-fun shoot for FemDom Empire earlier this month. It’s a whole movie shot in five short segments, from foot worship/humiliation, on to pussy eating, on to pegging and ending up with edging and face sitting. Super fun. I don’t’ recall my partner’s name, sadly, as he was easy to work with. He made great puppy dog eyes and could look scared w/no trouble. It ‘s always fun to play a meany, if my tongue is planted firmly in my cheek.


I’m getting much closer to wanting to do more “fuck a fan” type scenes. Once I figure out how best to do the logistics I’ll post more about it. There’s no money in it for the guys but there is the exchange of working with me. I get to use the footage and you get the experience. Seems like a fair exchange. I want to start w/handjobs since those are the safest thing to do w/two people.

Watch this space.

More soon!



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New Year’s Day, 2016

Hello, Everyone! I hope you all had a safe New Year’s Eve. My Darling and I observed our usual tradition of hot sex, followed by a nice dinner, in observance of our 16th anniversary. On New Year’s Eve ’99/’00 we decided that This Was It. Even though our wedding anniversary is July 7 we place more meaning on the original Moment of Decision.

I dressed up extra slutty: sheer mesh top, black stay-thigh highs, patent leather collar and cuffs, plus eye makeup and false eyelashes. Ernest poured me a shot of the extra-fancy Castle Knappouge 16-year single malt and we sat down to peruse some wonderful illustrated smut to pique our interest even more. He’s found a couple of new artists that really have our number, so that was a bonus.

It being a celebratory night he was especially ebullient, using my favorite impact items on me: crops, canes and the dressage. All very sharp sensations that leave pretty marks for about 30 minutes. For as much as he caned my ass (heavenly!) it was mark-free by dinner. That’s a sign that a submissive is being put to good use.

But the best part was the bonus anal, which we ended up doing though we’d not discussed it beforehand. When you’ve been married as longs we have my butt lets him know when it’s in the  mood to be fucked as merely plugged.

Rocking anal sex to a great finish for both of us. Woot!

Then dinner, then catching the final three episodes of the great Patrick Stewart comedy, “Blunt Talk,” on BBC America. Fucking brilliant, with amazing writing and perfect casting for the supporting roles. The character of Henry is the Best. Service. Bottom. Ever. I want one!

I’ll keep you posted as to my doings and whereabouts. If you want more timely updates, follow me on Twitter: @ninaland, as I post there daily.

Poor Iowa, they’re getting creamed by Stanford.

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Sunday, December 6th, 2015


Due to the calendar, show dates for December are as follows:

Wednesday the 9th

Thursday the 17th

Wednesday the 23rd

Wednesday the 30th

We’ll figure out January’s dates closer to that time. With the AEE, one show for sure will be cancelled, likely on the 21st.

The Seduction of Nina Hartley

A couple of weeks ago I did a movie for Devil’s Films, “The Seduction of Nina Hartley,” an all-milf extravaganza. I did a fun one-on-one first w/Payton Leigh, a very sweet blonde  I worked with once before w/Diamond Lou. It was pretty straightforward and I had fun w/the strap on. She’s got a tasty pussy and eating her out was most delightful, as she’s so responsive. Always nice to work w/women who like women!

The second scene was a four-on-one girl-bang, with Erica Lauren, Sable Rene, Coralyn Jewel, and a super-hot milf whose name escapes me at present, Gah! SO sorry, as it was she who got to wear the BBC strap on dildo to fuck my ass (she was the only switch on the set, all the rest were subbies). But she was hot, with a rockin’ pixie cut and dimples. Plus, it felt great in my butt.

Oh, yes, after we all used toys on ourselves and helped each other, I was on the bottom of the girl bang, with fingers in my ass and pussy at the same time and a whole lot of laughter and orgasms for all. Should be out in January.

Adam & Eve

Also out in January, from Adam&Eve will be my first Guides in about four years: Hot Talk for Lovers and Open Relationships. I wrote about the shoot when it happened in May, I believe, and now they’re out!

AEE 2016

I’ll be attending my 32nd (!) consecutive AEE this January 21-23, at the Hard Rock Hotel in Vegas. I don’t know my schedule yet but I’ll be signing for both Adam&Eve as well as Devil’s. Should be fun, as it’s Old Home Week for me.

Christmas ’15

My mother is now in assisted living, having developed dementia. She’s well cared for, so we’re lucky that way. We’ll be having our annual “Winter Brunch” a week earlier this year. Usually we’d have it the Sunday between Christmas and New Year’s but my niece’s kids want to have Christmas w/their grandparents in Vermont, where they live in a tiny town straight out of a postcard. So, they’re coming a week early and we’ll have our brunch on the 20th. Traditional Stollen from my grandmother’s handwritten recipe, plus fruit cup w/supremed grapefruit and oranges, scrambled eggs w/herbs and mushrooms, and vegetarian bacon and sausage (you know, soy-based, as there’s no meat allowed at the Zen Center), plus my brother’s amazing coffee (he lugs his espresso machine from his house each year). With the cousins coming down from Napa and various boy/girl friends, we should be seating about fifteen. We’ll have my mother over from the assisted living place and it should be pretty great.

I’ll get there Saturday the 19th, in time to mix the Stollen dough and let it rise overnight and get up early to bake it. We hope to sit down to eat by 11 and it’s pretty much over by 2 or so. I look forward to it each year. This year will rock, as my youngest niece is finally eighteen and I no longer have to dance around what it is I do for a living. She’s fine w/it, so that’s very cool.

Talk to you Wednesday on the show!

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Sunday, October, 25th, 2015

Life Gets In The Way

I know I’ve been even worse than usual w/keeping you up to date on my comings and goings but Ernest went into the hospital on the 11th and ended up staying for a week when there were complications from an emergency appendectomy. I slept at the hospital each night and was with him pretty much full-time. Thankfully, he’s home and will make a full recovery. Whew!


I was returning from doing a talk at Gettysburg College this past Thursday, so was unable to do my show. There will be a show next week. Maybe solo, maybe Charli Piper. I’ll be sure to let you know!


I had the distinct pleasure last week of flying into BWI in order to be part of a Speakers Panel on gender at Gettysburg College in, you guessed it, Gettysburg, PA. The ride in was a vacation in and of itself, as the weather was California-warm and the colors were just starting to turn. It’s lovely country side in that part of the world and the driver was a delightful retiree who earns money by driving for the school, since there are no airports w/in 2 hours’ drive.

I arrived on Tuesday. They put me up in a nice hotel directly on Lincoln Square, in the middle of town. It’s such a charming place that I just wanted to move in that day. I like college towns and this place, of course, is loaded with History-with-a-capital-“H.” Very walkable and the school itself is really lovely. Jeff W., an adjunct professor teaching a Production class, arranged for me to be interviewed by a young man while being recorded, both as a class project as well as for my use later. That went very well and the young men could’t have been more polite. At the end of the talk a friend of the teacher’s, a grown man who’s not a student, drove me back to town (five whole minutes!) and came in to the bar for a drink. We were eventually joined by Jeff and the wife of the guy who drove me back. Then a quick chat to my Darling, who was home alone after his stint in the hospital, then bed.

The next day was equally beautiful and warm. I got a shampoo and a blowout at the studio across from the hotel (I saw the sign from my window), before lunch with some students at the Dining Hall. Again, lovely young people who want to talk about sex. I had the rest of the day to work on my talk before being picked up at 6:30 to go to the venue, a 100-seat room. Forty students are required to attend the lecture series and the small, 100-seat room, but it was soon clear that we’d need a bigger space. When it was SRO and badly overcrowded we had a force mejur move to the Ballroom. We finally got the microphone working and about 350 students sat on the floor and the few chairs that were available and I got to do my talk. I’ll have to post it here, or somewhere. It turns out that the speaker before me in the series was a Pro Domme and the final speaker is the odious Gail Dines (it’s personal between us, believe me). I got some good digs in w/o being overly harsh, as the purpose of the talk was not to bash Dines but to give the students hope about sex and their futures as sexual beings.

It was well-recieved, to say the least. Then dinner with the staff and other teachers from the department, plus a couple of Econ professors, plus my friend, Robert, who came down from MD to listen in.

I just loved being on stage talking to young adults. I like them and they seem to like me, so you can know I’ll be pursuing that avenue more in the future.

Not A Lot of Play

As you can imagine, with Ernest’s appendectomy, we’ve not had a lot of play time recently, so not a lot to report on that arena at present.


I recently did a great workshop here in LA with my friend, Michael Ellsberg, “Dominance for Nice Guys.” Fifteen people showed up, two of them bringing their girlfriends. As demo models we had the fabulous Justine Joli and Casey Calvert, who both performed above and beyond expectations. We thought they’d be great but they were better than great. They were awesome! Just the fact that they are so personable and able to articulate their experience as submissive players helped the guys so much. Plus, actual spanking, work w/floggers, crops and paddles. Everyone got something out of the experience and Michael and I are hoping to do this quarterly here in LA.

Michael and I have very different dimming styles and it was nice to showcase each type. His is very wordy, with a lot of dialogue. Mine, learned from Ernest, is more physical and intuitive. Both are hot. While she’s the ultimate Good Girl, Casey did a fine job of playing the Brat with Michael.


I’m continuing to work w/Jay Taylor to shoot fun content. I have a store and some of my newer scenes are there. I’m looking to add more FemDom content, so if you’re hankering for a spanking there’ll be boy bottoms made red soon!

As always, thanks for reading!

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Sunday, September 13, 2015

Bawdy Storytelling Tonight

Tonight, Ernest and I will participate in Dixie De la Tour’s delightful live entertainment, “Bawdy Storytelling,” at Busby’s East on Wilshire Blvd. Both Ernest and I have done this before, so we know it’s a blast. The stories have to be true, have happened to you, and can’t be read. It’s not stand up, it’s not schtick, it’s not a rant. It’s got to be a story with a beginning, a middle and an ending. Tonight’s topic: sapiosexuals (people for whom the biggest turn on is a big brain).

Not The Golden Girls XXX

The release of “Not The Golden Girls, XXX” is fast approaching. I play the part of Rose, made famous by Betty White. Sophia is portrayed wonderfully by Karen Summer (follow her on Twitter: @karensummerxxx), who knocked it out of the park. It was hard to keep a straight face when she was doing her lines, believe me!

New Guides Coming Out

Adam&Eve is getting ready to release two new Guides, the first in at least five years, I think. One is “Hot Talk,” and the other is a combo: “Swinging and Polyamory.” In both my on-camera expert is the wonderful Reid Mihalko (Twitter: @reidaboutsex). I think I wrote about the actual sex a while back and I look forward to its release. Lots of good looking people having a great time with each other. Life could be worse!


Ernest and I had fun recently with our Sweet Young Miss. SYM has a new girlfriend, which is why we’ve not seen much of her for the past couple of months. But, for her birthday, she wanted a four-way and we were happy to host the party. SWM’s girlfriend, whom I’ll call Tall Femme (not to be confused w/Tall Girl), is experienced w/group play and was happy to help show SYM a great time. TF is a Domme, so it was really three on one. Poor SYM never had a chance and was almost overwhelmed with the intensity of the emotions and the physical activity.

While Ernest and TF were getting acquainted in the living room, I escorted SYM to the dungeon and got her dressed in her cute little outfit: white fascinator w/short veil, white mesh gauntlets, white lace garter w/bow, hand-crocheted foot decorations, white collar and cuffs ad a cute, white corset. She put in the butt plug first. When she was finished and looking adorable, I brought her out with her wrists cuffed together and presented her to the waiting dominants. As you can imagine, she got much approval and appreciation.

I sat SYM between Ernest and TF and sat myself opposite them while we drank some wine and petted, teased and “tormented” the poor, helpless birthday girl. Before we took her back for the real party, though, we set up the pool table and make SYM play pool while we distracted her, teased her and watched her be super cute. The game wasn’t over until she sank a ball, which took a good fifteen minutes. Only then did the corset and veil come off, allowing SYM a lot more ease of movement. Don’t forget: corsets are also a bondage device!

It was very nice, how easily the three Doms eased into co-torturing SYM. We passed her around smoothly and only needed a few words to move things along. TF is just that: very feminine, with a feminine way of dominating. Lots of talk and eye contact, which SYM loved. TF would be looking into SYM’s eyes while hurting her somewhere else. Lots of delightful gasping, moaning and crying out. SYM suffers ever-so beautifully, to the amusement of the three of us.

Highlights included; watching TF expertly use wicked single tail whips on SYM. Ernest’s and my single tails are much clunkier than TF’s and left delicate, even, pale pink marks on SYM’s pretty ass.

Also great to see: Ernest fucking SYM from behind while she had her happy, happy face buried between TF’s legs (TF made SYM work for that pussy, believe me!)

Having SYM in the cage fully engaged: mouth on one crotch with her hands busy on the other two. We played round-robin on that one. It was such a great sight, seeing her on her knees, happy to be so pleasing to so many.

Helping SYM get off by using my fingers in her while TF held the Magic Wand. FInally, SYM had to take over the vibrator duties but she came really hard, which was awesome, of course.

And the finale, when SYM was sucking off Ernest while I buzzed next to him. I tried to come at the same time as he did but I couldn’t last that long! After he came I helped clean them up and then he and I went to the living room so I could finish dinner and to give them some privacy.

They left at midnight and SYM said they didn’t get much sleep when they got to her place! Good thing she’s a strong, healthy young woman!

Sweetheart Shoot

Tuesday, I work for Dana Vespoli as she directs another all-girl epic for Sweetheart Productions, an offshoot of Mile High Media. All I know is I get to use a strap on on a girl, so I’m happy!

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Sunday, July 12, 2015

NO SHOW ON THE 16th. Ernest and I are leaving town the next day, early, to attend an event in Austin. Back the 23rd

My mother is doing much better, so thanks to all who offered their support.

Celebrity Wife Swap

Turns out my episode of “Celebrity Wife Swap” aired a couple of weeks ago, months after I shot it. I signed a non-disclosure agreement (NDA),a common thing here in LA and, since I’m not a regular fan of the show, didn’t monitor when the season started or when my episode would air. Apparently, people liked it.

The celebrities in question in the dungeon that day, the fabulous Margaret Cho and her “husband for a week,” Rodney Peete. He turned out to be super sweet, nice, gentlemanly and fun. It was clear he’d never seen a room like the playspace before, so that was fun. Margaret has seen the space, and she’s been kinky in her private life, so she was instantly comfortable there.

The show doesn’t have scripts, per se, but the director is on hand to shape and guide the “spontaneous” conversation. We started and stopped multiple times but Rodney kept up his end admirably.

Now, I’ve just got to find the episode online and watch it!


This Friday, Ernest and I will fly to Austin to present at a Leather event there (the GWNN BASH). He’ll also be giving the keynote address at the brunch. I love attending these events with him, as it’s nice to see his fans so happy to meet the man who’s meant so much to them and their development as kinky people. With all the kink videos out there these days it’s hard to recall a time when Ernest was THE ONLY dominant man on camera for others to emulate. Lucky for the ladies out there, Ernest loves women and is always smiling and nice on camera (and off!), so any man looking to him for guidance was looking in the right place. Ernest’s dominance comes from the right place: it’s his natural orientation and he really, really, loves the ladies.


We had the pleasure last week of hosting Sweet Young Miss for the first time in a while. She’s a busy young woman and we’re only one couple w/whom she shares time and fun, so we’re always happy when our turn on her dance card comes up.

Ernest had the notion of dolling her up all in white, so we spent a couple of weeks assembling pieces of her costume. One piece came all the way from the Czech Republic, believe it or not. Luckily, all the pieces had arrived by the time of the date.

After greetings, etc., I took SYM to the back to gussy her up before presenting her to Ernest, who remained in the living room sorting the smut we’d be perusing shortly. SYM is luscious naked but the costume didn’t hide a thing.

I took a small piece of her very ample hair and made a little bunlette on top of her head, to which I pinned the white semi-veil. Then came the hand-crocheted foot decorations, consisting of a loop around the toe, ending in a ruffled ankle tie. Then the white net gauntlets, a white corset, skimpy white heels with the clear tops (to show off the cute foot decoration and brand new, pale pink pedicure). No ankle cuffs, as the ruffles did the visual trick. The finishing touch were little tinkling bells affixed to the cuffs and ankle ruffles, and some bell-adorned nipple clamps.

Oh, did I mention that she put in her favorite butt plug? Yeah, she did that, too.

She looked perfect, and perfectly sweet. I  loosely fastened her wrists behind her, and it was time for the Big Reveal.

I wore a white jacket, my collar and Dehner’s to present her to Ernest,  who could hear the gentle tinkling of the bells as we walked down the hall. I paused at the end of the hall so he could take in the full effect which was, as he likes to say, “Just how I’d pictured it.” He stood up and we spent some time fondling, groping, smooching and complimenting SYM. She, already having had a glass of wine, played the role well and giggle a lot. She’s usually very chatty but she got into the role of Living Doll so well, we were off to the races and we hadn’t yet looked at smut!

I poured Sweet Young Miss a second glass of wine and sat her between us, one of her legs draped over sac of ours, spreading them just enough to get a great view of her lovely bits. By the time the second glass of wine was gone tits had been squeezed, kisses exchanged, lewd inspection of her juicy girly bits had occurred and it was time to take her back to the playspace.

We took our time, pausing often to grope her and show her to herself in the mirror, so she could see how cute a morsel she was. Once there we got her on her back and attached her wrists to the end of the bed. We proceeded to use the electric suction machine on her, first the larger diameter tube (2.5″) and then the smaller one, that only sucks up her inner lips and clot, (1.25″). As always we let her control the suction itself, both the duration as well as the intensity. I did tube duty while Ernest kissed her and generally enjoyed the spectacle.

From there it went on as these things usually do. A lot of whipping and spanking and cunnilingus and fellatio. A few moments stood out especially well, though. One was when I was straddling her face while Ernest fucked her and the other was occurred when she was doing a reverse cowgirl on my strap on (she picked the day’s dick) in an especially comfy way: I lay back on the dungeon bed so that my feet were flat on the floor and SYM sat on my lap with her legs on the outside of mine. I concentrated on keeping my ass tight, both to protect my back as well as to give her something from upon which to wiggle. The best part was that she faced the  mirror and Ernest stood to the side and used a dressage whip on her perky boobs. The harder he hit the harder she ground herself into the toy. Very hot.

We ended with SYM giving Ernest a foot job with her freshly pedicured toes as I sat next to him, buzzed away and enjoyed the show. We came at the same time this way (I can tell when he’s close by his breathing). Then it was SYM’s turn and I used my hands as she buzzed w/the Magic Wand to a nice strong orgasm.

After a breather, she asked to go again, so she lay between us and buzzed away as we cuddled and groked the energy. When she came again I jumped up to start dinner, as if I had stayed I’d have fallen asleep. We ate, Ernest in his robe, SYM and I sitting on our robes with our boobs out. We hung out after dinner for a while longer before Ernest got dressed to walk her to her car.

All in all, a very relaxing evening. It’s our favorite way to entertain!


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