Sunday, October, 25th, 2015

Life Gets In The Way

I know I’ve been even worse than usual w/keeping you up to date on my comings and goings but Ernest went into the hospital on the 11th and ended up staying for a week when there were complications from an emergency appendectomy. I slept at the hospital each night and was with him pretty much full-time. Thankfully, he’s home and will make a full recovery. Whew!


I was returning from doing a talk at Gettysburg College this past Thursday, so was unable to do my show. There will be a show next week. Maybe solo, maybe Charli Piper. I’ll be sure to let you know!


I had the distinct pleasure last week of flying into BWI in order to be part of a Speakers Panel on gender at Gettysburg College in, you guessed it, Gettysburg, PA. The ride in was a vacation in and of itself, as the weather was California-warm and the colors were just starting to turn. It’s lovely country side in that part of the world and the driver was a delightful retiree who earns money by driving for the school, since there are no airports w/in 2 hours’ drive.

I arrived on Tuesday. They put me up in a nice hotel directly on Lincoln Square, in the middle of town. It’s such a charming place that I just wanted to move in that day. I like college towns and this place, of course, is loaded with History-with-a-capital-“H.” Very walkable and the school itself is really lovely. Jeff W., an adjunct professor teaching a Production class, arranged for me to be interviewed by a young man while being recorded, both as a class project as well as for my use later. That went very well and the young men could’t have been more polite. At the end of the talk a friend of the teacher’s, a grown man who’s not a student, drove me back to town (five whole minutes!) and came in to the bar for a drink. We were eventually joined by Jeff and the wife of the guy who drove me back. Then a quick chat to my Darling, who was home alone after his stint in the hospital, then bed.

The next day was equally beautiful and warm. I got a shampoo and a blowout at the studio across from the hotel (I saw the sign from my window), before lunch with some students at the Dining Hall. Again, lovely young people who want to talk about sex. I had the rest of the day to work on my talk before being picked up at 6:30 to go to the venue, a 100-seat room. Forty students are required to attend the lecture series and the small, 100-seat room, but it was soon clear that we’d need a bigger space. When it was SRO and badly overcrowded we had a force mejur move to the Ballroom. We finally got the microphone working and about 350 students sat on the floor and the few chairs that were available and I got to do my talk. I’ll have to post it here, or somewhere. It turns out that the speaker before me in the series was a Pro Domme and the final speaker is the odious Gail Dines (it’s personal between us, believe me). I got some good digs in w/o being overly harsh, as the purpose of the talk was not to bash Dines but to give the students hope about sex and their futures as sexual beings.

It was well-recieved, to say the least. Then dinner with the staff and other teachers from the department, plus a couple of Econ professors, plus my friend, Robert, who came down from MD to listen in.

I just loved being on stage talking to young adults. I like them and they seem to like me, so you can know I’ll be pursuing that avenue more in the future.

Not A Lot of Play

As you can imagine, with Ernest’s appendectomy, we’ve not had a lot of play time recently, so not a lot to report on that arena at present.


I recently did a great workshop here in LA with my friend, Michael Ellsberg, “Dominance for Nice Guys.” Fifteen people showed up, two of them bringing their girlfriends. As demo models we had the fabulous Justine Joli and Casey Calvert, who both performed above and beyond expectations. We thought they’d be great but they were better than great. They were awesome! Just the fact that they are so personable and able to articulate their experience as submissive players helped the guys so much. Plus, actual spanking, work w/floggers, crops and paddles. Everyone got something out of the experience and Michael and I are hoping to do this quarterly here in LA.

Michael and I have very different dimming styles and it was nice to showcase each type. His is very wordy, with a lot of dialogue. Mine, learned from Ernest, is more physical and intuitive. Both are hot. While she’s the ultimate Good Girl, Casey did a fine job of playing the Brat with Michael.


I’m continuing to work w/Jay Taylor to shoot fun content. I have a store and some of my newer scenes are there. I’m looking to add more FemDom content, so if you’re hankering for a spanking there’ll be boy bottoms made red soon!

As always, thanks for reading!

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Sunday, September 13, 2015

Bawdy Storytelling Tonight

Tonight, Ernest and I will participate in Dixie De la Tour’s delightful live entertainment, “Bawdy Storytelling,” at Busby’s East on Wilshire Blvd. Both Ernest and I have done this before, so we know it’s a blast. The stories have to be true, have happened to you, and can’t be read. It’s not stand up, it’s not schtick, it’s not a rant. It’s got to be a story with a beginning, a middle and an ending. Tonight’s topic: sapiosexuals (people for whom the biggest turn on is a big brain).

Not The Golden Girls XXX

The release of “Not The Golden Girls, XXX” is fast approaching. I play the part of Rose, made famous by Betty White. Sophia is portrayed wonderfully by Karen Summer (follow her on Twitter: @karensummerxxx), who knocked it out of the park. It was hard to keep a straight face when she was doing her lines, believe me!

New Guides Coming Out

Adam&Eve is getting ready to release two new Guides, the first in at least five years, I think. One is “Hot Talk,” and the other is a combo: “Swinging and Polyamory.” In both my on-camera expert is the wonderful Reid Mihalko (Twitter: @reidaboutsex). I think I wrote about the actual sex a while back and I look forward to its release. Lots of good looking people having a great time with each other. Life could be worse!


Ernest and I had fun recently with our Sweet Young Miss. SYM has a new girlfriend, which is why we’ve not seen much of her for the past couple of months. But, for her birthday, she wanted a four-way and we were happy to host the party. SWM’s girlfriend, whom I’ll call Tall Femme (not to be confused w/Tall Girl), is experienced w/group play and was happy to help show SYM a great time. TF is a Domme, so it was really three on one. Poor SYM never had a chance and was almost overwhelmed with the intensity of the emotions and the physical activity.

While Ernest and TF were getting acquainted in the living room, I escorted SYM to the dungeon and got her dressed in her cute little outfit: white fascinator w/short veil, white mesh gauntlets, white lace garter w/bow, hand-crocheted foot decorations, white collar and cuffs ad a cute, white corset. She put in the butt plug first. When she was finished and looking adorable, I brought her out with her wrists cuffed together and presented her to the waiting dominants. As you can imagine, she got much approval and appreciation.

I sat SYM between Ernest and TF and sat myself opposite them while we drank some wine and petted, teased and “tormented” the poor, helpless birthday girl. Before we took her back for the real party, though, we set up the pool table and make SYM play pool while we distracted her, teased her and watched her be super cute. The game wasn’t over until she sank a ball, which took a good fifteen minutes. Only then did the corset and veil come off, allowing SYM a lot more ease of movement. Don’t forget: corsets are also a bondage device!

It was very nice, how easily the three Doms eased into co-torturing SYM. We passed her around smoothly and only needed a few words to move things along. TF is just that: very feminine, with a feminine way of dominating. Lots of talk and eye contact, which SYM loved. TF would be looking into SYM’s eyes while hurting her somewhere else. Lots of delightful gasping, moaning and crying out. SYM suffers ever-so beautifully, to the amusement of the three of us.

Highlights included; watching TF expertly use wicked single tail whips on SYM. Ernest’s and my single tails are much clunkier than TF’s and left delicate, even, pale pink marks on SYM’s pretty ass.

Also great to see: Ernest fucking SYM from behind while she had her happy, happy face buried between TF’s legs (TF made SYM work for that pussy, believe me!)

Having SYM in the cage fully engaged: mouth on one crotch with her hands busy on the other two. We played round-robin on that one. It was such a great sight, seeing her on her knees, happy to be so pleasing to so many.

Helping SYM get off by using my fingers in her while TF held the Magic Wand. FInally, SYM had to take over the vibrator duties but she came really hard, which was awesome, of course.

And the finale, when SYM was sucking off Ernest while I buzzed next to him. I tried to come at the same time as he did but I couldn’t last that long! After he came I helped clean them up and then he and I went to the living room so I could finish dinner and to give them some privacy.

They left at midnight and SYM said they didn’t get much sleep when they got to her place! Good thing she’s a strong, healthy young woman!

Sweetheart Shoot

Tuesday, I work for Dana Vespoli as she directs another all-girl epic for Sweetheart Productions, an offshoot of Mile High Media. All I know is I get to use a strap on on a girl, so I’m happy!

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Sunday, July 12, 2015

NO SHOW ON THE 16th. Ernest and I are leaving town the next day, early, to attend an event in Austin. Back the 23rd

My mother is doing much better, so thanks to all who offered their support.

Celebrity Wife Swap

Turns out my episode of “Celebrity Wife Swap” aired a couple of weeks ago, months after I shot it. I signed a non-disclosure agreement (NDA),a common thing here in LA and, since I’m not a regular fan of the show, didn’t monitor when the season started or when my episode would air. Apparently, people liked it.

The celebrities in question in the dungeon that day, the fabulous Margaret Cho and her “husband for a week,” Rodney Peete. He turned out to be super sweet, nice, gentlemanly and fun. It was clear he’d never seen a room like the playspace before, so that was fun. Margaret has seen the space, and she’s been kinky in her private life, so she was instantly comfortable there.

The show doesn’t have scripts, per se, but the director is on hand to shape and guide the “spontaneous” conversation. We started and stopped multiple times but Rodney kept up his end admirably.

Now, I’ve just got to find the episode online and watch it!


This Friday, Ernest and I will fly to Austin to present at a Leather event there (the GWNN BASH). He’ll also be giving the keynote address at the brunch. I love attending these events with him, as it’s nice to see his fans so happy to meet the man who’s meant so much to them and their development as kinky people. With all the kink videos out there these days it’s hard to recall a time when Ernest was THE ONLY dominant man on camera for others to emulate. Lucky for the ladies out there, Ernest loves women and is always smiling and nice on camera (and off!), so any man looking to him for guidance was looking in the right place. Ernest’s dominance comes from the right place: it’s his natural orientation and he really, really, loves the ladies.


We had the pleasure last week of hosting Sweet Young Miss for the first time in a while. She’s a busy young woman and we’re only one couple w/whom she shares time and fun, so we’re always happy when our turn on her dance card comes up.

Ernest had the notion of dolling her up all in white, so we spent a couple of weeks assembling pieces of her costume. One piece came all the way from the Czech Republic, believe it or not. Luckily, all the pieces had arrived by the time of the date.

After greetings, etc., I took SYM to the back to gussy her up before presenting her to Ernest, who remained in the living room sorting the smut we’d be perusing shortly. SYM is luscious naked but the costume didn’t hide a thing.

I took a small piece of her very ample hair and made a little bunlette on top of her head, to which I pinned the white semi-veil. Then came the hand-crocheted foot decorations, consisting of a loop around the toe, ending in a ruffled ankle tie. Then the white net gauntlets, a white corset, skimpy white heels with the clear tops (to show off the cute foot decoration and brand new, pale pink pedicure). No ankle cuffs, as the ruffles did the visual trick. The finishing touch were little tinkling bells affixed to the cuffs and ankle ruffles, and some bell-adorned nipple clamps.

Oh, did I mention that she put in her favorite butt plug? Yeah, she did that, too.

She looked perfect, and perfectly sweet. I  loosely fastened her wrists behind her, and it was time for the Big Reveal.

I wore a white jacket, my collar and Dehner’s to present her to Ernest,  who could hear the gentle tinkling of the bells as we walked down the hall. I paused at the end of the hall so he could take in the full effect which was, as he likes to say, “Just how I’d pictured it.” He stood up and we spent some time fondling, groping, smooching and complimenting SYM. She, already having had a glass of wine, played the role well and giggle a lot. She’s usually very chatty but she got into the role of Living Doll so well, we were off to the races and we hadn’t yet looked at smut!

I poured Sweet Young Miss a second glass of wine and sat her between us, one of her legs draped over sac of ours, spreading them just enough to get a great view of her lovely bits. By the time the second glass of wine was gone tits had been squeezed, kisses exchanged, lewd inspection of her juicy girly bits had occurred and it was time to take her back to the playspace.

We took our time, pausing often to grope her and show her to herself in the mirror, so she could see how cute a morsel she was. Once there we got her on her back and attached her wrists to the end of the bed. We proceeded to use the electric suction machine on her, first the larger diameter tube (2.5″) and then the smaller one, that only sucks up her inner lips and clot, (1.25″). As always we let her control the suction itself, both the duration as well as the intensity. I did tube duty while Ernest kissed her and generally enjoyed the spectacle.

From there it went on as these things usually do. A lot of whipping and spanking and cunnilingus and fellatio. A few moments stood out especially well, though. One was when I was straddling her face while Ernest fucked her and the other was occurred when she was doing a reverse cowgirl on my strap on (she picked the day’s dick) in an especially comfy way: I lay back on the dungeon bed so that my feet were flat on the floor and SYM sat on my lap with her legs on the outside of mine. I concentrated on keeping my ass tight, both to protect my back as well as to give her something from upon which to wiggle. The best part was that she faced the  mirror and Ernest stood to the side and used a dressage whip on her perky boobs. The harder he hit the harder she ground herself into the toy. Very hot.

We ended with SYM giving Ernest a foot job with her freshly pedicured toes as I sat next to him, buzzed away and enjoyed the show. We came at the same time this way (I can tell when he’s close by his breathing). Then it was SYM’s turn and I used my hands as she buzzed w/the Magic Wand to a nice strong orgasm.

After a breather, she asked to go again, so she lay between us and buzzed away as we cuddled and groked the energy. When she came again I jumped up to start dinner, as if I had stayed I’d have fallen asleep. We ate, Ernest in his robe, SYM and I sitting on our robes with our boobs out. We hung out after dinner for a while longer before Ernest got dressed to walk her to her car.

All in all, a very relaxing evening. It’s our favorite way to entertain!


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Friday, Junteenth, 2015

Happy Junteenth! Today marks the day in 1865 that Texas finally told the slaves that the Civil War was over and that slavery had been abolished, two and a half years after the Emancipation Proclamation .


Until further notice show nights will be Thursday, 7-8 pm Pacific time. The Concert Season has started in the park across the street and the music runs Th-Sun till the end of September. I may just keep show nights to Thursday or change it back. We’ll see.


Where I’ll be this August 11-16:

Be there or be square! It’s a great cause and we need all of your help and support. If you cant’ come, please donate what you can so we can continue to lobby for and promote sexual freedom as a fundamental human right.


The good news is that she’s not as close to death as we feared. Thank you to all who shared their support and concern when things were less clear. She’s come through the crisis she was facing and is in a good space. It was a delight to see her earlier in the month and just spend time. Like millions of other Boomers my remaining parent is close to the end. Once she’s gone I’m granted an automatic promotion into The Older Generation, no matter how I feel about it. I’m grateful to have closure w/both of them and, while it’s sad, of course, to think of my parents no longer here, it’s the natural order of things. I hope, when my time comes, to handle it as well as my parents have.

I’m going up to San Francisco again later in the month and will see her then.




I recently shot two new Guides for Adam and Eve, the first in at least four years (maybe five but I can never keep it straight). The topics were fun and the casts were attractive and enthusiastic, which is all one can hope for in a cast.

The crew was new to us and included two cameras, also something new. The last time we shot we used a single camera and a monitor, so Ernest had to learn on the fly how to adapt to the new order. He did well for a first-time experience so we’re confident that next time will be even smoother.

The first was How to Talk Dirty and had four scenes:

Steven St. Croix and me

Chanel Preston and Damon Dice

Charli Piper and Dick Chibbles

Misty Stone and Nat Turnher

Scene One:

I had a blast with Steven, as we don’t work together often enough to have any bad habits, bad blood or bad attitude. It’s always a pleasure when I get to work w/a male partner who is too old to be my child, and Steven’s a great guy. Just enough gray in the hair, just enough masculine authority to get my motor running. The highlights were the BJ, as he’s got a great curve that I could force down my throat jussst right. That he knew just how to push made it all the more delicious. Not all women like being forced to suck dick but I can get into it for moment or two. The other highlight was the give and take on the masochism during the fucking, combined with the eye contact. I showed him how I like my nipples played with and let him see the connection between how he stimulated them and how I fucked him back in return. This is a fun thing to do while in cowgirl. The chair was comfy and the extreme G-spot up curve of his dick made him extra fun to ride. So I squeezed his nips as he squeezed mine. The harder he pinched, the faster I fucked him, the better to move the energy around. That in turn excited him to pinch harder, and so forth. The eye contact was great and made the scene so much fun. He blew a lovely load on my boobs.

Scene Two:

Charli, dressed in her fantastic lingerie, sits in the living room reading from “Master of O” to Dick Chibbles (the tail end of the airplane mini-orgy), who’s dressed in a silky silver robe, stroking her leg.

When the reading was completed Dick took charge the way both he and she prefer and what resulted was a lovely, moderately-D/s scene. Dick is much taller than Charli, at least ten inches so, which made it easy for her to get all swoony, but he manhandled her expertly and she had a great time before she took his load on her  perky tits.

Scene Three:

Chanel Preston and Damon Dice, an attractive a couple as they come. Damon is listening to the people next door get it on and Chanel says she can do it better. So she does. The contrast with the lingerie of my scene and Charli’s with the smooth pelt of Chanel is a nice switch up. He legs go on forever, especially in her nude, high-heeled sandles and Damon is a sight for any het girl’s fantasy.

Scene Four:

The amazing Misty Stone and the super-hunky Nat Turnher in a bit of role play. Misty is the perfect example of sweet self-determination. I don’t know who ended up “using” whom more, but they fucked the love seat across the floor. She’s a great tease and he can take it for a long time before giving as good as he gets.

Just four great scenes.

Creative Non-Monogamy

Cast:   Ana Foxx/ Isiaah Maxwell

Ela Darling/Bradley Brennan

Daisy Ducati/Aaron Wilcoxx

Moana Wales/Anthony Rosano

This movie as two scenes of two couples each. In one, Ela Darling, Bradley Brennan, Ana Foxx and Isaiah Maxwell play two couples meeting to swing for the first time. What made the scene work so well was casting Ela and Ana first. They’ve had a mutual-admiration society going on for a while but had not yet sealed the deal, so they were hot to trot. Bradley is a delightful Irish young man and the attraction between him and Ela was real and sweet. They played a loving couple very convincingly even though it was their first time together. Isaiah both likes Ana and has worked w/her before, so playing romantic partners was no trouble.

The mini-orgy was great, done in the living room. One of the best moments came when the women were fucking in such a way so they could high-five each other. Another great moment came in toward the beginning of the sex, when it was just the women playing with each other. Ela squirts and watching them masturbate side-by-side was a treat. Everyone was in a happy heap at the end.


The second scene was designed to showcase an ongoing relationship between four people who live together. Daisy and Mona are real-life besties and always know how to show each other a good time. I worked with them at Kink dot com for “Everything Butt.” Daisy was the designated anal chick that day. We were in the dungeon space so it’s nice and big and made for sex. One of the highlights of that scene was a daisy chain of standing-doggie/doggie girl eating pussy/getting-eaten girl sucking dick. In a word, hot. Seeing real friendship play out on screen is always a treat. There’s no way the finished movie won’t reflect the good time that was had by all.


So far in June I’ve already shot five short clips for my Clips-4-Sale store and site. These were with the aforementioned Daisy Ducati and a delightful submissive friend, Nenetlavril. Daisy’s style of Domming is bratty/mean, but with a cute smile and dimples, so you want to do what she says just to see her smile at you. Plus she’s gorgeous. Two of the five stand out. In one I get to be mean to Nenetlavril, playing a college student interviewing a Big Movie Star. By the end I have her masturbating while sucking my toes. So fun!

I shot content today with Jay Taylor, Tim “Pro Villian” Woodman and Subbie Cupcake, who was new to me and such a delight! Jay played Helper, as she’s not at all masochistic, while Tim and I had our way with Cupcake, who is masochistic and very orgasmic. We started with Cupcake at the bounce wall and spanked and petted her before Tim ripped her satin slip right off of her. We took turns flogging, spanking, whipping and kissing her for quite a while before moving on to the spanking/fucking horse, where we whipped her some more. Highlights of the day included eating Cupcake out till she came (super fun), eating Jay out till she came (as fun as it sounds), and watching Tim fuck Cupcake until she came twice, before ending the scene with Jay and me watching Cupcake blow Tim till he came in her mouth.

Next Friday I shoot content with Karen Summer and a friend of hers, then a g/g and g/g/b at the end of the month. Whew!

Till next time. I had no idea it had been so long. Sigh.




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Sunday, March 29th, 2015

Quiet Weekend

Ernest and I had a quiet, uneventful weekend at home. After a great playdate with Sweet Young Miss on Thursday and a Kink Live dot com show Friday with Charli Piper we just needed to chill.

Solo Show Tuesday

Got Flash to work, so the show will go on as usual on Tuesday

Playdate last Thursday

So, we set up a playdate last Thursday with Sweet Young Miss. It had been a while so we were all in the mood. Though she is switchy, she’s always in sub mode when she gets here. Like me, she’s also masochistic, making time with her always a lot of fun!

There is a small routine when she gets here. The space is already set up, the dining room table cleared off and cuffs, butt plug, etc., are set out, Ernest and I are already in whatever we’re wearing (not much, but effective). After hellos all around, there is chit chat about general things and catching up to do while she undresses and then re-“dresses” with the cuffs, etc.

When it was time to sit on the couch and have a glass of wine and look at smut I created a strait jacket-like effect by crossing her arms in front of her, under her perky boobs, and connecting the wrist cuffs using rope. Nice and comfy but she had to ask for every sip of wine Plus, she was helpless to prevent us from feeling her up. That we were all functionally naked already sort of gives it away, but it’s fun nevertheless.

The smut-viewing, wine-sipping, making out, groping portion of the date drew to a close when Ernest said it was time to move to the playroom. Young Miss walked back on her tiptoes as the two of us continued with our attentions.

All of our play sessions, whether it’s Ernest and me alone, or us with others, follows a general template: lots of spanking, flogging, whipping, molesting, electric suction machine, munching, fucking, and orgasms, until we’re plumb tuckered out.

But a couple of moments did stand out as particularly good this time:

1. She was in an anal mood and asked to be fucked in the ass, always a fun time. Ernest is very good at it. He never pushes or asks, but is happy to oblige should he be invited to do so.

2. When she was strung up to the winch, I sat on the spanking horse in front of her, having my fingers in her butt while Ernest whipped her butt.

3. Doing the same thing with her butt while he whipped her front using the mean dressage whip, which is extra stingy.

4. Getting so turned on seeing her suck Ernest’s dick that I came before either of them, something I’ve never done before.

5.Getting my hand inside of her, at her request, for her orgasm (after Ernest and I had had ours).

Then, dinner and conversation till midnight.

It’s times like this that I’m so grateful for Ernest. It’s not easy finding a guy like him for a gal like me.

Family Issues

Just to keep you in the loop, my mother had a partial hip replacement last week, following a fall two weeks ago. She’s in a rehab facility and they have her up and walking. I spoke with her today and she’s herself, which is a blessing. So far, all signs point to a full recovery.

Micro-Budget Movie

Tuesday early am I have a small part in a small independent movie, “Scumbag.” I play a cougar and my part offers some brief comic relief. Should be fun! Since we’re shooting at a local adult store, my call time is, ugh, 7 am, as we have to be done by 10 am so they can open on time.

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Wednesday, March 18th, 2015

Birthday Fun

March 11th was my 56th birthday and Ernest and I celebrated in our own fashion: with a great, rocking session. Just for fun I counted the cane strikes out loud (we normally don’t bother with such things as counting out loud). The buffing was, as per usual, really great. We even tried the blow-job-while-hogtied bit, but the bed was too low to really make it work. I think, with the Liberator Stage and a small Wedge, I’ll be able to both be hogtied AND reach his dick. Worth a try!


March 22nd will mark my 32nd anniversary in front of the camera, my first movie being in March of 1984. Crazy to think of it. It’s felt like a long weekend, actually. Hard to imagine it’s been so long. Crazy!


I have a Clips4Sale store now, but you can simply watch the archived shows to see what’s on it.

Company Dinner

Sable Renae and her man, Ring Sable, came to dinner the other night. Ms. Renae has visited before and we’ve had a threesome as well as a solo date for Ernest and her, but this time it ended up with the trading-blowjobs-after-dinner action. Fun! I look forward to doing more with them, truth be told. It’s naughty, imho, when switching partners, to have one couple in one room and the other in another room. A different kind of “hot” than a four-in-one-room party. He says he gives great massage and I’m a fiend for a massage, so I’m down for that!

Ring and I worked on dinner while Sable and Ernest played pool. We had set the evening up as a “CMNF” party. That stands for Clothed Male, Naked Female, for the uninitiated. Sable is creamy and smooth all over. Her puss and  mine look very similar, though she’s much more orgasmic than I am. Poor girl!

Before getting down to business we showed Ring the playspace, which he had not yet seen. We got her up against the bounce wall and showed Ring just how fun it was to toss a giggling woman against it again and again and again! Then  I gently tapped her pussy with a sand-filled leather weight/truncheon, juuuuust softly enough and with juuuuuust the right rhythm, until she came. Gosh, so easy! So fun!

So, when we got her to the bed after the BJ action was completed, it was me between her legs, with a man on either side of her. I first used my hand, as is my way, teaching Sable’s husband things about her pussy that he could use later to their advantage. After that orgasm I didn’t give her much time to recover before showing Ring the Njoy Eleven, one of the best non-dick penetration devices yet designed. The large end slid in easily and I had Ring hold the shaft of her clit while I manipulated the toy inside of her. It took all of six minutes before she was coming again. With the other action I think she came at least three times that night, maybe four. Poor thing!

I look forward to setting up a proper playdate soon!


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Sunday, February 22, 2015


I’m taping the Academy Awards to watch later w/Ernest while we eat pizza. I’m sure Neil Patrick Harris will be a great host, as I’ve loved seeing him host the Tonys and Emmys. He’s a great all-around entertainer in the old tradition.



I’ll be doing a comedy show here in Los Angeles

Sin In The CIty

I’ll be in Vegas this next weekend for the kink convention Sin in the City. I’m giving two workshops, one on jealousy and one on vulva whispering, two of my most popular topics, as it turns out. Ernest can’t make it so I’ll be going solo.

Family Visit

I’ll be seeing my family the week after Sin in the City. My niece and her family are in town and I’ll get there just two days before they have to return to the north east where they live. I get to meet the great-nephew for the first time, who’s eighteen months and his older sister, aged four and a half. Can’t wait!

Content Shoots

I have a lot of content shoots coming up. Deauxma, Sexy Vanessa, Jay Taylor, to name just a few. Looking forward to it. Sexy Vanessa is new to me and Deauxma and Jay Taylor are return visits. In future: Sarah Vandella, Karen Summer, Charli Piper and more.


Monday the 23rd we have a date with Tall Girl! Should be fun, as she loves strap on play and I like to do it, so win-win on that one. Steak for dinner afterwards.

While I”m in Vegas this weekend Ernest has a date with S., a yummy, new MILF and while I’m in SF on the family visit he’ll have some alone time with Young Thing. Our sex recently has been really great and I know, after two times in a row with other women I’ll be in for an amazing time when next we’re alone. We don’t have makeup sex because we don’t fight, so reunion sex is the best we can do. I’ll take it!


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Sunday, February 1, 2015

Super Bowl!

I’ll be watching the SB on my couch, tweeting all the while. It’s an even game, which should make it fun. I’m nominally for the ‘Hawks, as I root for NFC/West Coast teams, as a rule, over AFC/East Coast teams. Since I have no dog in the fight, though, I just want a close, clean, fun game.

Plus, I want to see Katy Perry’s amazing boobs during the half time show!

Show on the 3rd


I’ll be in SF doing a scene for Kink dot com with, among others, the lovely Daisy Ducati  I’ve already had the pleasure of working with her on an episode of “Blame It On Ginger,” where my hand fit nicely into her beautiful vulva. Who knows what will happen at Kink? I believe it’s an anal-themed scene, so woo!

AEE 2015

This past January 21-24 I was in Vegas for my 30th (!) consecutive visit to the porn show there.

When I started, the adult show was a sub-section of the Consumer Electronics Show (CES) and was always held the first weekend after New Years. It was also always during playoffs and many were the Sundays where I would be racing around the floor trying to find a TV with the Niner game on (the Niners were perennial playoff participants during the Eighties).

Then, a few years back, Adult Video News Magazine (AVN) took over the adult show and, while it was scheduled to run parallel to the CES, was no longer connected to it. This meant that the badge an attendee got for the CES no longer also allowed him/her to get into the adult section. They had to buy another freaking ticket and stand in another freaking line.

Then, a few years after that (I’d have to do research to find the actual timeline) AVN sold the show to the Adult Entertainment Expo folks and what was once the CES Show, morphing into the AVN show, is now the AEE. AVN still runs the awards show (it was very good this year).


Fun at AEE

It was great going to the show this year. Charli Piper roomed with me and we always have a fun time. She’s smart, spunky, funny and cute as heck. We play off each other very well. We arrived Tuesday afternoon so we could settle in before the madness started on Wednesday.

Wednesday we got up, got dressed and went to the media room so we could stand in line to get our credentials. I met a lovely newcomer to the business, Jade Nile while in line and I hope to work with her many times in the future. She was a delight. I hope she maintains her sunny personalty for many years. Another lovely young woman I met was Harriet Sugarcookie (one of the best. names. ever), an Anglo-Vietnamese beauty over here from England. She also has a bright future, as she’s figured out how to access adult entertainment w/o being consumed by it.

There are always lots of people at the show and I found the Adam&Eve booth easily enough and took my seat. Autographing-wise, the show was like any other. I sit in one place and peoples show up all day to say nice things to me, take pictures and get autographs. I liked my picture this year, which always helps!

I gave interviews to many folk, podcasts as well as video. I do like to hear myself talk, I will admit. Plus, it’s about a topic near and dear to  my heart: sexual health and happiness.

Fun Times

On Wednesday night, Charli and I were going to sleep and Charli rolled over to snuggle (we only had one bed. Yeah, sucky!) When we had found a comfy position she started to grind herself against my leg. Not one to miss such a broad hint, I asked if she was horny and needed some, er, assistance. and got an affirmative answer. Of course, I don’t travel anywhere w/out my safer sex kit : gloves, lube, condoms, baby wipes and my Magic Wand complete with extension cord. We made out (she’s an amazing kisser) while I used a gloved hand (one can be dirty w/o being unsanitary, don’t forget) on her very beautiful girly bits.

One thing led to another, as they do, and soon enough I was working her pussy with my hand with seriousness and determination. I may have gone down on her, too, as one would be a fool to pass up that opportunity, but I clearly recall using my hand. When she reached a certain level of excitement she reached for the Wand vibe and was soon coasting over the orgasm line. I wiped the lube from her puss with the baby wipe (a sexually active person’s best buddy) before pulling off my glove inside out, keeping the wipe inside. Then, blissful sleep.

More Fun

Friday afternoon brought Sara Vibes to the room. We got her a roll-away bed, as three sleeping in one king size bed is a bit much. Thankfully, they got along okay, as I thought they might. They’re both in their mid-Twenties, kinky, into girls and fun times.

Friday night (or was it Saturday after the Awards? I should have made notes!), we were getting ready for bed when, naughty girl that she is, Charli again snuggled next to me and started humping my leg. I asked her in a teasing tone, “Do you need to get off? If you don’t say ‘no’ Sara and I will jump you, you know.” She didn’t say “no,’ and in a flash I got out of bed and said, “Sara, this girl needs some attention!” Sara and I have been fooling around with girls together for over five years, so we know what to do: I got the Wand, lube baby wipes and set them out. Sara got her own gloves (she wears a large, so she can’t use mine).

Charli started by getting on her knees, but little boy shorts and t-shirt, inviting us to spank her. She likes a good spanking and Sara and I like to give them. Win-win! We took our time and mixed it up between spanking, deep, thuddy fist hits and light fingertip tickles. Then the boy shorts came off and we spanked her some more while admiring her pretty parts and gently teasing them with our knowing fingers. Seen from behind, Charli’s bits are dainty and delicious. We each gloved up so we could play with her more directly and effectively.

We put Charli on her back and got her t-shirt off. Sara and Charli started making out while Sara used her very clever hands on Charli’s puss. Then, of course, she had to taste it for herself. I climbed on Charli’s face while Sara buried her face further down.

When Charli got very excited Sara stared using her hand on Charli. Sara is very strong and, like me, finds pussy endlessly inspirational. Soon enough, Charli again had to reach for the Wand and, with Sara keeping the fucking up steadily, got herself to the edge before pushing herself over and then rolling into a second one. Woot!

Needless to say, we all slept very well that night!

Now, I’m back with my Darling and kick off is almost here!

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Thursday, January 8th, 2015

Happy Belated New Year

Wow. The time simply fell away and I apologize for not posting anything new for too long. Yikes! Ah, life. It has a way of getting in your face, doesn’t it?

I hope everyone had an enjoyable holiday season or, if that wasn’t possible, then one that wasn’t too onerous. Christmas Day Ernest and I spent alone together. We’re not religious so the day itself holds no particular meaning. It’s a nice, quiet day where one can spend time on the phone talking with family members far away.

In my family, since two siblings are observant Jews, we don’t have a “Christmas brunch,’ so much as a “Winter Brunch,” or “Winter Gathering,” the Sunday between Christmas Day and New Year’s. We meet where my Mother lives in San Francisco, at the Zen temple where she’s lived for the past 25 years. I flew up on Saturday afternoon and, after sundown, my sister arrived w/her my niece and nephew in tow. My oldest brother had arrived earlier that day. So, it was a nice family get together in the communal kitchen that night, while we got the dough started for the Stollen (a German Christmas bread), a long-time family tradition handed down from my German paternal great-grandmother.

My nephew is 24 and my niece is almost 18. I will be so happy when she’s an adult. We’ll no longer have to tiptoe around certain topics. Of course, since she’s on the Internet she may already know, but if she does she’s not talking. My sister, niece and I shared the women’s dorm room.

After the dough was set to rise I took my nephew and went to meet Carol Queen for a bite and some conversation. It was great to be able to introduce him to one of my closest friends. When we returned home late I punched down the dough (I think I tweeted a pic of it) and went to bed.

Up at seven to knead, shape, decorate, let rise again and bake the Stollen. Plus beat eggs for the scrambled eggs, slice mushrooms, chop herbs, section grapefruit, etc., for the rest of the brunch menu. My other brother, the coffee maven, arrived w/his son, and finished the menu w/Swedish rosti potatoes w/chives and his amazing coffee. We make a Stollen for the residents of the temple and it was gone very fast. It’s a favorite tradition there now, too, having gone on for 25 years now.

Brunch at 11 and ten of us to sit, as my brother-in-law arrived w/my nieces’ boyfriend, 18 and, indeed, “very cute.”

By three o’clock everyone was on their way home except for my sister and me, as we were staying a couple of extra days to help Mom w/her downsizing from four rooms to two. There is a lot of stuff that accumulates over time and it felt good to get a lot of it out and to the trash, recycling or the in-house good will department. On Monday night an old friend, Andy (from 9th grade), an organic farmer now working near Watsonville in central California, dropped by. He was visiting SF w/his wife and now-grown kids and he, my sister, my Mom and me sat around for a bit sharing stories of our family history. Sadly, Andy’s wife, very ill w/cancer, died just after New Year’s, so I was very happy to see him when I did.

New Year’s

Ernest and I observe our anniversary on Dec. 31st, as that’s the day we decided to commit ourselves to each other. We’ve just started our 15th year together. We could see that there was a big party being readied at the venue across the street from us so we postponed our festivities to January 1st, after the Rose Bowl (Go, Ducks!). Let’s just say it was a rocking’ good time! Nothing beats getting down w/one’s Darling, I must say.


We’ve not had a lot of threesomes recently, as the holidays have a way of eating people’s schedules. Ernest did have a solo date set up but she called in sick and we’ve not had  a chance yet to reschedule. Hoping for next week!

Sarah Vandella

My guest Tuesday night was the amazing, sweet, lovely, sexy, smart Sarah Vandella. I shot content w/her recently and we hit it off. She’s just adorable and, I must say, has a very appealing vulva. When she’s splayed open her pussy fits my mouth perfectly, the most perfectly-fitting puss since Victoria Paris who’s been retired for at least fifteen years or more. Really, if you have a chance to see Sarah’s work, do yourself a favor and go for it. Plus, she’s an ace deep throater.  I did a ggbb handjob/blowjob scene w/her and was super-impressed at her skill level.

Did I mention she’s super pretty, w/a personality to match?

XBiz Show

Next week is the XBiz show, w/the XBiz Awards on Thursday night. Ernest and I will attend and sit w/the folks from Adam&Eve, even though we’ve not worked for/with them in years. I don’t believe I”m nominated for anything, as I’ve not done much paid work this past year. I’m trying to do more content for my site.


The AEE is in Vegas the 21st-24th. Charli Piper and I will be sharing a room and on Thursday Sara VibesXXX will join us. That’s a whole lotta girl sharing one bathroom! I think Charli and Sara will hit it off. They’re both smart, pervy, with good senses of humor. I’ll be working the Adam&Eve booth and spending some time at the APAC (Adult Performer Advocacy Committee), a by-and-for-performer group that’s now over a year old. It’s very heartening to see that there is a critical mass of smart, motivated career-minded performers who will work together for the betterment of all performer’s lives.

Date Night

Woot! Tonight I get to play w/my Darling. Always a great time is had by all. Hope to get his makeup date with our playmate going for next week. Fingers crossed!


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Sunday, November 23rd, 2014

Blame It On Ginger

I’ll be on Blame It On Ginger, Monday from 4-6 Pacific time. It’s always a great time with her, since we’re old friends and always have something fun to talk about or do. Last week I fisted Daisy Ducati, a lovely young woman with mesmerizing dimples and an infectious smile. Who knows what will happen tomorrow? On December 1, Charli Piper will be joining us and we’re going to see if Ms. Piper’s tiny hands will fit into Ginger’s pussy. Don’t miss it!

Solo Show on the 25th.

Thanksgiving ’14

My Darling and I will be joining five friends at The Capital Grille for Thanksgiving dinner. For the first nine years we lived together we always collected the strays, people w/no place to go on our national Family Holiday. One year we discovered that there were no strays that year. People had either moved away or gotten into relationships. I wasn’t about to cook Thanksgiving dinner for two, since we usually eat alone most nights. So, we went out. Instead of it being depressing, as I had feared, it was a lot of fun. The food was great. The services was great. The restaurant was full of happy families. Since then we’ve gone out each year. The Grille is new for us, as our original place closed, but the food, service, ambience and company are great. Looking forward to it.

Unfortunately, it’s also the Thursday where the Niners, my football team, are on TV! Argh! I hope it’s an afternoon game, as we don’t need to leave for the restaurant till seven.

Kinklive dot com

Charli is a pro switch and about once a month we do a kinklive show together. We did one last week and one guy spent a lot of time having Charli top me. I get that Charli is the stand in for men wanting to dominate me, so that part is fun. We’re also personal friends, so we were having a laugh all throughout the show. She gives a surprisingly hard spanking, does Ms. Piper! She moved soon to wooden paddles that attach to the hand with a wide elastic strap. Easy to spank and hands stay protected. Ernest doesn’t spank or paddle me much, as we both prefer whips, canes and crops for that, so my butt is remarkably sensitive to the sting of wooden paddles. My butt was definitely stinging, though Charli assured me that it wasn’t even warm. Golly! I would have thought that my ass was quite warm, given how I was yelping about the sensation of the paddles. Hmmm . . . .

I ended up in the cage sucking on the strap on that Charli wore, making myself gag, choke, cough and drool all over Casper (that’s the name I give my favorite dildo, as it’s white and shot through w/silver sparkles). It’s an easy party trick to do, making oneself gag and choke on a dick, and it’s very theatrical and impressive, as it looks and feels like the cocksucker is trying. so. hard. to. fit. it. all in, but just can’t.

Get the cock/toy at the back of your throat and rest it against the soft palate. Then start breathing around the toy, or coughing. This will trigger a gag reflex but, since you’re in charge of what’s going on, there’s no panic reaction, so you can stay with it until the gagging gets a little too real. Then back away, catch your breath, and go back in. Easy peasy!

I did manage to get my hand in her, though, so it was a nice payback. Feeling her pussy so alive around my hand never gets old. Yum!

It was fun to play with her that way. I’m sure we’ll do it again.


Ernest and I had a fun time not too long ago with a young woman we met in the business. Let’s just say that having a bisexual, masochistic, sweet, smart, funny, adult (27 years old) woman want to play with us at our age is very refreshing. She’s not looking for a relationship but is looking for friendship and fun. Sweet! She’ll even see Ernest when I’m out of town, which is harder than you think. Only Tall Girl does that (thank you, Tall Girl!)

Speaking of Tall Girl, we’ve got a hot date w/her next month. Woot!

See you on Ginger’s show or Tuesday on mine!

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